“Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the end result of your faith, the salvation of your souls. 1 Peter 1:8,9
~This devotional was used by our women’s group in conjunction with a study from Elizabeth George’s book, A Woman’s Walk With God, Growing in the Fruit of the Spirit.~
Of all the Fruit of the Spirit, I find at times, joy is the one most difficult to be deceived by a counterfeit. When hard times come, and heart break is inevitable, joy cannot be pretended.
1~ Joy is Supernatural.
Joy is only available to the Believer who is living a life in step with God. None of the Fruit of the Spirit are available without a saving relationship with Jesus Christ, leaning in close to the Savior, walking in His will.
In John 15, versus 8-11, Jesus tells His disciples that when we bear fruit (lives oozing with Godly character) we glorify God and prove to be Christ’s disciples. He explains how He loves us as God the Father loves Him.
He has been explaining our relationship with Him, using the analogy of a vine and its branches. Can you picture Him, walking the disciples through a vineyard as He talks and points out the familiar vines, and paints for them a word picture they can understand and keep close to their hearts?
“Abide in my love.” He tells them. “ If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.”
And then Jesus explains why it is so important that we abide (remain, tarry, be held).
11 “These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.” John 15:8-11
This word, full, also means full to the brim, so that nothing shall be wanting. It means to render complete; perfect.
Just picture your heart, so full of joy that it can’t contain anymore. It is complete. It is perfect; but only if we are abiding. Obeying. Tarrying for Christ and his desire for us.
2~ Our joy is Positional, not Circumstantial.
Happiness the counterfeit we most often mistake for joy, but happiness is circumstantial. The very word tells us it is so. “HAP” means chance. It is the root of happen, haphazard (dependent on mere chance), happenstance (a chance circumstance), and the word “happy”.
Happiness is an emotion that changes with our circumstances, but our emotions are not a reliable reflection of the truth of our position; our situation.
Before we believe in Jesus and what he did, trusting in Him, and relying on his death, burial and resurrection as payment for our sin–before that, we were enemies of God. That was our position.
Praise the Lord, we don’t stay there, because when we place our trust in Him and accept the beautiful gift of sacrifice he gave on our behalf, our position changes. He removes us from the position of enemy and places us in the position of friend of God. And now our position allows us to experience the full life and full joy that Jesus wills us to have.
But only in Christ!
The New Testament word for Joy, or Gladness, is Chara.
- the joy received from you
- the cause or occasion of joy
- of persons who are one’s joy
Jesus is our salvation, and we (Believers) are the recipients of the surpassing riches of His grace (that which affords joy! 🙂 ) Ephesians 2:4-8
Our joy doesn’t disappear, diminish, or change when hard times come calling. It stays, because He stays. Our joy is positional, not circumstantial.
3~ “Joy looks out and up, not inward.”
God doesn’t want us to dwell on our circumstances. He wants us to look to Him, trusting His goodness and His faithfulness, and to stay mindful of our position and His promises. When we focus on those things, a wonderful thing happens. Gratitude.
The natural result of Grace is Praise.
Gratitude is an essential ingredient for joy. And, it is a commandment.
1 Thesselonians 5:16-18 tells us to “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing; in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” Emphasis Mine
Psalm 50:23 tells us that the one who offers thanksgiving as his sacrifice glorifies God.
How? To borrow from Charles Stanley:
- Giving Thanks strengthens our witness to unbelievers,
- gives us eternal perspective,
- motivates us to look for God’s purpose in our circumstances,
- keeps us continually aware that God is close by,
- brings us our will into submission to God,
- and it reminds us of our dependence upon HIM.
What about Sorrow? What place does it have for a people of joy?
Godly Sorrow is Okay.
According to Isaiah 53:3, Jesus was “… a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief.”
Jesus felt sorrow over our sin, and grief over what He was to suffer on our behalf. And yet, Hebrews 12:2 explains that “for the joy that was set before Him, he endured the cross.”
How should we treat sorrow?
In the book of Lamentations, chapter 3, Jeremiah sets an example for us. He spends the first 19 verses acknowledging his terrible circumstances, like this:
“I have been deprived of peace;
I have forgotten what prosperity is.
18 So I say, “My splendor is gone
and all that I had hoped from the Lord.”
19 I remember my affliction and my wandering,
the bitterness and the gall.
20 I well remember them,
and my soul is downcast within me.”
But then, in verse 21 he begins to turn it around and he praises God.
“Yet this I call to mind
and therefore I have hope:
22 Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
23 They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
24 I say to myself, “The Lord is my portion;
therefore I will wait for him.”
And Jeremiah goes on praising the Lord.
It is okay to acknowledge our sorrow, just do not go on about it until it becomes toxic. Turn it around and praise God.
“Although I am going through this _____________, the Lord___________________.”
When I was going through this last miscarriage, I was grieving. I was sad… confused…helpless…frustrated. I didn’t understand why God was allowing me to go through such loss, yet again. But smack dab in the middle of the grief there was joy in knowing I was not alone. God was right there in the middle of the grief with me, and he was holding me, giving me strength, and reassuring me. At the end of the day I could say, “Although my heart is hurting, the Lord is good. Although I don’t understand, the Lord is trustworthy. Although I am helpless, God is my Helper.”
We will have bad days. Some of us will have a bad decade, but “because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed”. Because of his love, compassion, and faithfulness our hope is anchored to the throne of heaven, and we take joy, even in times of sorrow.
The Lord is our portion… our “possession, reward”;
therefore we will wait for him.
This word “wait”, it’s a different word than Jesus used for “abide” in John 15, but it carries a similar meaning… to expect, hope in, tarry.
Isn’t that beautiful? So many years before Jesus walked in the garden with his disciples, Jeremiah vowed to do exactly what Jesus would command them to do.
Tarry for the Lord… abide, and he will give you His joy, and your joy will be over the top, greater than all you could ask or imagine, FULL.